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Creativity: inborn or acquired
My discussion on creativity as to whether it is inborn or acquired started on quora.com where I gave an answer to someone’s question, so, I felt I should pose the question to my Facebook timeline to see people’s opinion on the subject matter. I believe [in life], if we don’t own anything, we own our opinions and we are entitled to it. So I want to take a moment to thank those who respond to the discussion I raised.
Creativity: inborn or acquired. I believed each and every one was born with a point of difference and that form our distinctive demeanor. That point of difference is called talent of which men are expected to trade with it to get the optimum results as to what they are to do in life.
I want to stand with others as they respond in the discussion that creativity is inborn as well as it is acquired and I will cite a case study here to back my opinion up.  It is the case of the ruling dignitaries in the world of football. Can you tell me their names?
As widely believed, they have a very great point of inflection and this is what sponsored people’s interests in the individual [don’t need to know the one I support, you’ll pay to know that]. Wait! Someone doesn’t know who I am talking about… okay, it is the popular Cristiano Ronaldo and Lionel Messi.
I have heard people say and I want to agree that Messi was born a footballer and it comes so easy for him and that is what fuel his light in the world of football because despite his life’s setback he was able to thrive above other men in the sport. And on the other hand, Ronaldo was believed to be a man who worked his way into the limelight –known to be a man driven by success, engaged many means he could to ensure he stay on top of the game –through vigorous training and onerous working out.
The question is what if the man born with it limits himself [probably with his setback] and did nothing to ‘fan it to a flame'. Everyone will agree with me that irrespective Messi still engages himself in one or two training to ensure his talent was defined and refined. And also the one who acquired it still need to ensure he keeps up with the activity that acquires the creativity for him so that he doesn't become stinking and stale over time.
This is the bottom line, whether inborn or acquired, creativity on its own doesn’t make any sense if it wasn’t expressed, polished refined, updated according to the need to time and ensure consistency as a basic key is not being thrown for dogs to play with.
That was just my opinion; I believe I have helped someone, you can do well to drop a comment below and share for others to read.
Ronaldo (CR7) or Messi (LM10) ……. Let me know your choice too.
I am #Òtáìbáyòmí
Abayomi Adeoye



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Look through my archive,
In my own brain- my hard drive,
I've been alive,
Even though haven't yet arrive,
But yet I didn't crash dive.

I'm well sure enemies connive,
But God never keep their dreams alive.

I will thrive,
Just like your wishes descrived
I will survive,
Even though I find myself in a beehive.
And my prayers is your value won't nosedive,
And for good things you won't be deprived.

For the love I appreciate,
I pray it will never depreciate.
Goodness and mercy will be your associates,
Riches and goodies will always be at your gate.
For this is God's mandate.



Thank you everyone for the love you showed to me. For the call, the messages, the Facebook posts, the wishes on my timeline, the WhatsApp statuses. I really appreciate it. I'm humbled by your testimonies and much reason I need to get better.

I'm not writing this because it's normal to say thank you -maybe that's why it's coming late. But when I reflected, I felt loved and I need to say thank you to everyone.


I'm well sure next year will be greater as you've challenged me.

Let's get better together,
See you at the top.
#Òtáìbáyòmí.
Abayomi Adeoye
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It was a dark silent night, on a Tuesday, I was coming from a friend's house. The remembrance of our gist made me smile to myself -though I always smile on every little chance I had to. Miles away from my friend's house and few distance to mine: I noticed a young man approaching me, his looks cautioned me and made me lost the aura that made me smile, I tried all I could to avoid him, but the more I do, the more vulnerable I seem.

Who could he be?, he was a bit rough with a questionable haircut -I think they call it 'afro', he wore a sleeveless top and a rag-like jean short -the one they termed 'crazy jean', with a canvas.

Right at that moment, fear was sent down my spine and it occupied me that I couldn't think of anything to do as rumors of bad deeds that happened on the path flash to my memories. The path I'm on was surrounded by bushes though with a lot of uncompleted buildings and the next  occupied neighborhood is out of sight.

I tried all I could to send fear out of my body and it seems I overcame, but on reaching him, he grabbed my hands and I managed to slip out of his hands and I take to my heels, but in few seconds he caught on and grabbed me, covered my mouth with one hand and held me with the other. I don't know what he is up to, if he's going to rob me, I had only my phone on me and I forgot my purse at home -that's what got me trekking, I could have board a bike.

Before I knew it, he head towards an uncompleted building though roofed but with no door, I struggled to shout but I couldn't make a sound as his palm covered my mouth and sealed my lips, when he seems relaxed and thought he has won over me, I managed to bite him and escape, but was stopped with his stretched hand, he slapped me immediately that I landed on the floor with my face down, before I could look up, he already unzip the rag he called short and jumped on me, I tried getting off and couldn't run beyond his reach. I was forced against my will to lie down and I gave up as I felt powerless and behold I was raped and was deflowered. I felt the pain in my bones plus the one I got from my hymen breaking.

My heart was choked and I felt that minute, my life was disarrayed, after few minutes, he left me helplessly on the ground and dashed away. I wept like that's going to be the last time I will cry, though the deed was done, but I felt the huge blow and an empty pit where something big and irreplaceable was taken. I found my way home and narrated the horrible experience to my sister who I was living with, she advised I go to the hospital of which I did the following day.

But ever since I wasn't the same again, I felt I'm irrelevant. What can I do please?, I need comfort and advice on how to get over my sense of irrelevancy.

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Overtime, I laughed when I go over my chats with some people because a lot of them contains unfulfilled promises.

Memories of how I smiled on hearing the promises flash and they made me repeat the smile. Maybe list of unfulfilled promises is what made to trust no one or I'm like that from onset. I only trust some set of people headed by God who if they failed or delayed promises, I'll still trust their words for me.

I remember then when am still naive (so to say), every single promises excites me, they made me a rubber ball which bounces and rebounds on every single stroke.

A very perfect example is when I was in the third year of my junior secondary education (JSS3), my dad promised a blackberry phone -of course you know what it means to own a blackberry then now. On every single call, I answered twice, I became the boxer of animal farm that chose to work tirelessly -though I'll still work with nothing attached, but the promises is a motivation to do extraordinarily, especially when it's attached to my academics performance.

Promising is good only when they are realistic and was fulfilled -or the reasons will be visible genuine and reasonable if at all it will fail. Because as much as it adds to our credit, that much it's discredit us if we failed.

Well, at the long run, I was unable to own the promised blackberry, and this made me not-too-excited when I received any promises especially on getting a phone then. Though I later got one when I was in SSS 3 -you want to know the type, lol, it's NokiaC1-01 (at least I can ranked up with the bosses then).
Don't promise I repeat
Don't promise just to say something, don't promise to make someone happy especially the ones who holds your words with respect, if you have too much succeeding failures, your words lose value and virtue, even if you are not promising them.

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Good day, how was the last blog post?, Please comment are always welcome, you can always comment on the blog or inbox me directly.
Let's move on today about Stephen: A man full of faith and of the Holy Spirit and his impacts.
Another emphasis was in verse 8 of Acts 6.
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NIV:Now Stephen, a man full of God’s grace and power, performed great wonders and signs among the people.
Stephen on account of the fullness of God's grace and power in him, did great wonders and miraculous signs. Not with pride, how do we showcase God's grace and power in our own lives? Or we tend to live a normal Christian life without grace and power?
On account of his enablement to perform signs, opposition arose but the Bible said
NIV:But they could not stand up against the wisdom the Spirit gave him as he spoke.
Stephen has not been speaking of himself neither has he been doing things on his own, this made men not to stand against him. But I will like to ask you words and the wisdom you claim to have is of who? God or self?
These men are desperate to seize him, so they are left with no choice than to produce false witness just because the words of Stephen is of a true God.
Do we remember Moses and the veil, when he went upto the mountains to meet God and came down with a shining face that no man's eyes could behold?, Similar thing happened to Stephen in front of the Sanhedrin. The Bible said
NIV:All who were sitting in the Sanhedrin looked intently at Stephen, and they saw that his face was like the face of an angel.
This was also as a result of God's grace, power and fullness of the Holy Spirit, I suppose. The challenge remains, how much of this grace and power do we possess?
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I suppose this will propel us to pray and cry more for God's grace and power on our lives, and even more of the holy Spirit.
Share to others as well.
I pray God bless
Abayomi Adeoye
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​Let's quickly examine the biblical biography of Stephen from the Acts of the Apostles chapter 6 and 7.
A man full of faith and of the holy Spirit
When it was time for his work to began, there was a complaint in the church (an unsatisfying situation).
Acts 6:1 - In those days when the number of disciples was increasing, the Hellenistic Jews among them complained against the Hebraic Jews because their widows were being overlooked in the daily distribution of food.

And this revealed someone called Stephen and his potentials. Here are some lessons and challenges 
* Sometimes, it's where there is hard time that God is expecting us to show forth the power he embedded in us
* Challenges most times bring out the best in us and thereby showcase us to the world, remember Joseph (if he wasn't sold as a slave he won't become a prime minister in Egypt).

* Are we running from challenges? That's not the best option, face it.
* You won't know you have the strength to handle a situation until such situation come around and when it comes around, you won't still discover the strength untill you decide to face and handle the situation.
Now about the introduction of this man called Stephen in Acts 6:5
NIV:This proposal pleased the whole group. They chose Stephen, a man full of faith and of the Holy Spirit; also Philip, Procorus, Nicanor, Timon, Parmenas, and Nicolas from Antioch, a convert to Judaism.

They chose Stephen "A MAN FULL OF FAITH AND OF THE HOLY SPIRIT". This doesn't mean others don't have that qualifications according to Acts 6:3
NIV:Brothers and sisters, choose seven men from among you who are known to be full of the Spirit and wisdom. We will turn this responsibility over to them
But special emphasis is laid on Stephen.
The Bible said upon the appointment of these men, the word of God spread and the number of disciples increased rapidly. But you know if they haven't managed the situation well, if they haven't perform upto expectations, the unsatisfying situation in the beginning would resurfaced. But with the help of the holy Spirit and God's wisdom. They managed the situation well. 
Are we also like them? Are we full of the holy Spirit and God's wisdom? Let's pray that God fill us with his wisdom to manage those unsatisfying situation in our lives and around us.
We shall return later to examine more, till then remain blessed
Abayomi Adeoye 
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